Just want to know if any older folks on the spectrum who have successfully masked - well you know with autistic overwhelmed dismissed as hormones - and have survived cancer - niche- have found chemo has had a lasting effect on their ability to mask. Like the real you can no longer be contained or there isn't enough brain left to mask and function?
I know this is not the right space. Was getting very frustrated and my adhd means I have to write this now or ot won't happen so here it is.
I am 59