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New - Advice needed re 19yr old son, please

Sylvie

My 19year old is finishing his college course shortly. He says he doesn't want to do another course or get a job. He also has no intention of leaving home at any time. Given that he is classed as an adult in law, is there anything I can do or do we have to accept that he is about to turn into a hermit!

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  • Hi everyone

    omg I certainly know where you are coming from, my son is 23 this year and we live in Kent , we moved here 2 years ago . Since hes gone to college hes got alot worse the verbal abuse I get is so unreal I just have to let it go over my head otherwise I think I would of had a break down. I knew from an early stage that there was something wrong with him but sadly has not been diagnosed which I think would help me to get what I need for him. Its not just that he has a girlfriend but doesn't really know how to handle a relationship which is very concerning . If i say anything he blasts me saying you always put me down etc etc, we know he can not do everyday things but even if we correct him he still has a go at me and gives this evil glare.

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  • Hi everyone

    omg I certainly know where you are coming from, my son is 23 this year and we live in Kent , we moved here 2 years ago . Since hes gone to college hes got alot worse the verbal abuse I get is so unreal I just have to let it go over my head otherwise I think I would of had a break down. I knew from an early stage that there was something wrong with him but sadly has not been diagnosed which I think would help me to get what I need for him. Its not just that he has a girlfriend but doesn't really know how to handle a relationship which is very concerning . If i say anything he blasts me saying you always put me down etc etc, we know he can not do everyday things but even if we correct him he still has a go at me and gives this evil glare.

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