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help and advice needed my partner has asburgers

fiona

HELP, im new to this site, and at my wits end. been married for 35 yrs to a man who has asburgers' but who is in denial, also 2 adult sons with it, 1 who is getting help ( thank god ). my life is a liveing nightmare, i love my husband very much, but i am DESPERATE  for some show of kindness and affection from him, I keep asking but he just dont do anything, he cant understand what i am FUSSING about, (his words not mine ) His attitude is that he works hard, pays the bills, so i should be happy' I need a support group for abit of support before i completely  crack up. I live in Cardiff south wales, can anyone sujjest anything to help me.....thanks

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  • Having said that, even with a diagnosis, it won't wave any magic wand.  Both of you would need to work at it, although he would need support to be able to do this due to communication being a deficit in ASC and it being harder to understand what is wrong and why for him.  If you try and are still unhappy and not compatible as partners, you may need to make a life choice for the sake of your own future happiness.

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  • Having said that, even with a diagnosis, it won't wave any magic wand.  Both of you would need to work at it, although he would need support to be able to do this due to communication being a deficit in ASC and it being harder to understand what is wrong and why for him.  If you try and are still unhappy and not compatible as partners, you may need to make a life choice for the sake of your own future happiness.

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