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help and advice needed my partner has asburgers

fiona

HELP, im new to this site, and at my wits end. been married for 35 yrs to a man who has asburgers' but who is in denial, also 2 adult sons with it, 1 who is getting help ( thank god ). my life is a liveing nightmare, i love my husband very much, but i am DESPERATE  for some show of kindness and affection from him, I keep asking but he just dont do anything, he cant understand what i am FUSSING about, (his words not mine ) His attitude is that he works hard, pays the bills, so i should be happy' I need a support group for abit of support before i completely  crack up. I live in Cardiff south wales, can anyone sujjest anything to help me.....thanks

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  • hi Jon,

    thanks for your reply, no he's not been diagnosed, you have to believe that there is a problem before you can ask for help, he has always blamed every thing and everybody around him, to justify his behaviour, i was only 20 when i 1st met my husband, and he quickly icelated me from friends and family, so that he could be in control of everything. the most heart breaking thing for me as a mum, is now my 2 sons have got it. i blamed my self and sort help from various councillors over the years,  I have endured physical, mental, verbal, and sexual  abuse over the years, and was asked how had i  COPED with him for so long. I am getting older now ( 56 ) and the older i get the harder i am finding it. I was hopeing for a support group close to where i live. its early days yet, so who knows, i might yet find help from somewhere.

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  • hi Jon,

    thanks for your reply, no he's not been diagnosed, you have to believe that there is a problem before you can ask for help, he has always blamed every thing and everybody around him, to justify his behaviour, i was only 20 when i 1st met my husband, and he quickly icelated me from friends and family, so that he could be in control of everything. the most heart breaking thing for me as a mum, is now my 2 sons have got it. i blamed my self and sort help from various councillors over the years,  I have endured physical, mental, verbal, and sexual  abuse over the years, and was asked how had i  COPED with him for so long. I am getting older now ( 56 ) and the older i get the harder i am finding it. I was hopeing for a support group close to where i live. its early days yet, so who knows, i might yet find help from somewhere.

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