Published on 12, July, 2020
If a child with Autism is having a tantrum rather than a meltdown, can you talk to them during the tantrum? My seven year old has tantrums but I don’t know if talking to him helps as he seems to get more angry when we try to talk to him, explain. in length why he can’t do or have something or offer alternatives.
I've found that asking questions, particularly those that don't relate to the cause of the upset, is a good way to help my child when they're upset and overwhelmed.
It helps re-engage their rational thinking and has a calming effect.
Thank you
Dear NAS75657,
Thank you for sharing this with our community. While we are waiting for the community to respond, you may be interested in reading our page about anger management, a guide for parents and carers, https://www.autism.org.uk/advice-and-guidance/topics/behaviour/anger-management/parents
Thank you. I hope this helps!
Best regards,
Eunice Mod