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teenage daughter with aspergers

weehaggis

I am so low "coping" with my daughter.She is 15 and is getting into situations where she makes all the wrong decisions.She left our home last night but is staying with my mum.Christmas is going to be awful.Please help.

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  • Hi Amy,

    Thanks for replying.Last year she was moved to a school with a "base" for autistic students.She made good,steady progress but about 6 weeks ago she had an arguement with her pals and now has no-one at school in her peer group.I have been off work post surgery so it is easy for her to stay at home.She is demanding,agressive ,manipulative and quite devious.She appears to go out of her way to upset all members of the house.She dislikes her dad,me and her sister.We walk on eggshells around her.The night she left i had called the police as she had threatened my other daughter and i followed through on a threat to call the police if she did not stop.She now feels(as she didn't actually touch us) that I have betrayed her and she no longer trusts me for anything.I would give my right arm for her but I am running low on resilience .She stayed with her gran but as she ran away from her home the police had to see her at my mums to complete the missing person report.I am willing to read your opinion and ideas if you have any to help me.Thanks again

    Wee Haggis 

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  • Hi Amy,

    Thanks for replying.Last year she was moved to a school with a "base" for autistic students.She made good,steady progress but about 6 weeks ago she had an arguement with her pals and now has no-one at school in her peer group.I have been off work post surgery so it is easy for her to stay at home.She is demanding,agressive ,manipulative and quite devious.She appears to go out of her way to upset all members of the house.She dislikes her dad,me and her sister.We walk on eggshells around her.The night she left i had called the police as she had threatened my other daughter and i followed through on a threat to call the police if she did not stop.She now feels(as she didn't actually touch us) that I have betrayed her and she no longer trusts me for anything.I would give my right arm for her but I am running low on resilience .She stayed with her gran but as she ran away from her home the police had to see her at my mums to complete the missing person report.I am willing to read your opinion and ideas if you have any to help me.Thanks again

    Wee Haggis 

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