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Needing help, just need to chat about ny son,

5ammy

Hi My son is 4, he is the youngest of 3 boys he also has a younger sister.

He has always been very different from the others needing routine being very angry, very little emotion.

But he is very able and you could sit next to him and chat and you really would not realise, his issues.

I am worried that the people diagnosing him, might miss it also, he is very suttle in his behavior until he is comfortable with his surrondings and with others around him.

But its then when his aggression start, this is usualy contained in the house but at times of shifting set at friends houses this has shown its face, even with routine through the day.

I am a full time working Mum and my husband has had to become a stay at home daddy as I really dont know how to deal with him, it really makes me cry.

When its my day off he wont let me took him in bed unless he says, as its not my job as he says, it will always end with me having to walk away as this just hightens he anxietys and then his aggression. what can I do when I speak to peolpe they look at me as if to say yes what ever, due to them only seing the nice side as he is not familiar with them and hasnt as yet attacted a stranger. he is very normal but so not.

love him to bits, and cuddle my others each night I get home and wish he woulld let me without him becoming anxious and hitting me.

Cheers

Sam

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  • Yes he is at nursery, and he has been at pre school since he was 1,1/2, as that was when noticed something not quite right. and thought he must have been bored.

    Yes he has alsways been good at pre school but he only went 2 days for 6 hours.

    I did speek to his teacher at the school he attends now and aired my concerns that with him being at school for more days that this may filter into school, she shrugged it off.

    then lsst week 3 days in row his closest friend 3 days in a row he has been there 8 weeks ish, honeymoon period over I think. Teacher said he might be tierd rrrrrrr, just why do they always think they know best.

    Sam

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  • Yes he is at nursery, and he has been at pre school since he was 1,1/2, as that was when noticed something not quite right. and thought he must have been bored.

    Yes he has alsways been good at pre school but he only went 2 days for 6 hours.

    I did speek to his teacher at the school he attends now and aired my concerns that with him being at school for more days that this may filter into school, she shrugged it off.

    then lsst week 3 days in row his closest friend 3 days in a row he has been there 8 weeks ish, honeymoon period over I think. Teacher said he might be tierd rrrrrrr, just why do they always think they know best.

    Sam

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