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My sons school are useless

Ollysmummy

Hi I wonder if anyone can help me my son got diagnosed about  six weeks ago with autism and generalised hypermobility and motor coordination difficults we have known from a baby he was a bit diffrent and then he went to an amazing nursery (tanglewoods in chelmsford) who put us on the right path to get him diagnosed and they went out of there way to help him learn and understand the world around him and he came on so far tantrums reduced, he tried to be more independent, stopped wetting him self ect and then he went to school! Now we are back to square one and his teacher is telling me his no diffrent to any other children they haven't got him on a action plan I asked almost a month a go to see their senco, I'm still waiting. I went for stay and play and he was siting in a diffrent direction to the class and froze when another child took his toy, I looked threw the window and my child was walking around in circles looking lost and confused while the other children were at there desks getting changed for pe i am beging to not want to take him there anymore as they don't seem very intressed in what his diagnoses report has said I don't no where to go from here we are at breaking point  any advise would be great. Thanks from a very stressed mum :-/

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  • thank you for your advise I feel like I have got somewhere today at last.I am referring him my self for a statement (didn't no I could do that thank you)and no I hadnt wrote a letter to the senco but had spoken to his teacher and office a few times about a meeting but I refused to leave today untill I had either an appointment with senco or head to tell me why  not after a month of waiting. I now have an appointment for the 4th And have arranged for families infocus to also attended. The worring  part is when I told the teacher about  some children can hold them self together at school she said she  knew as she worked with autistic kids before moving to this school  and is now telling me she didn't say he hasn't got problems just  that all the kids are struggling with the same issues I just wish I had of said yes but they can ask for help but I will now put it in a book with all the other things I want to ask and say hopefully he will get the help he needs now    :) 

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  • thank you for your advise I feel like I have got somewhere today at last.I am referring him my self for a statement (didn't no I could do that thank you)and no I hadnt wrote a letter to the senco but had spoken to his teacher and office a few times about a meeting but I refused to leave today untill I had either an appointment with senco or head to tell me why  not after a month of waiting. I now have an appointment for the 4th And have arranged for families infocus to also attended. The worring  part is when I told the teacher about  some children can hold them self together at school she said she  knew as she worked with autistic kids before moving to this school  and is now telling me she didn't say he hasn't got problems just  that all the kids are struggling with the same issues I just wish I had of said yes but they can ask for help but I will now put it in a book with all the other things I want to ask and say hopefully he will get the help he needs now    :) 

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