Just relocated to UK 2 months ago. Before relocating, the education psychologist from my local country provided us a referral letter for further assessment on my son with suspected ASD features. His case has got worse because of no school for 2 months. He hits the furniture, throws the things and shout when he gets angry. The furniture, even the heavy wooden door has damaged(really feel sorry to the landlord). Sometimes the sounds from our coughing, conversations, my little daughter’s crying and even whisper would make him angry. In several times, early in the morning, he kept scolding at me when I prepared my little daughter for school and pushed us to leave the house. I feel at risk sometimes and wanted to escape with my daughter from home. In the first 2 weeks in UK, he was still ok. Until he saw my daughter coming back school after Easter holiday but he had not yet had the school offer, his condition gets worse. Seldom to go out. Not eat together. Just go down to eat after we finished. I feel messy and helpless to face this alone with my little daughter. No one understand. Today is the first school day finally. He tried to change the uniform, but with a lot of complaints on the uniforms. Finally gave up and just stayed in bed to play mobile refused to go out. I know he worried about the people not nice to him. Called the school to report his situation and asked for advice. The school warned me seriously that he had to go to school even how to explain her. And asked me to find another school. I of course wants him to go, but I am unable to fight with him and grab him to school. Cries frequently… my emotion affects my little daughter too. Just want to get someone to understand here. And would like to ask whether the school will follow up his case if he has not yet attended the class…and he never want to go out to see GP then never diagnosed? What should I do? Sorry for so many questions
