Advice Daughter screaming anger no diagnosis

Hi 

can someone on here give me some advice on who or what my daughter who is 15 should be seeing after been taken off CAMHS register due my daughter not wanting to continue with the appointments for diagnosis as she don’t has made this really tough than already is as she is not accepting that she maybe Autistic on spectrum who can she not know or accept this I really can’t even mention the word anxiety or autism her makes her even more angry how can I help her if she refuses help and I guess is scared to know the truth as I believe she is on the spectrum ticks all box’s even eats certain food now since past year 

tI been told if she not ready for a diagnoses by Chams then we can’t force her , but however I struggling with her still worse then ever and then s at home won’t go out and meet friend anymore complains of Al sorts health problems that is anxiety but I can’t say anything makes her worse so I say nothing keep peace because I can’t take screaming 

here I am still trying to get someone to tell me what who I need 

I have been told by nurse she should see a paediatrician then my doctor don’t  have same views ? And now I going round circles and waiting for early helps weeks still and not urgent enough 

whilst dealing with meltdowns anger screaming not every day depends 

Someone must have answers ? 

i am going back to my doctors next week for the lost count how many times already done this is it really this hard to know who not even doctor knows 
 

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  • This is tough.  It's one thing to put a small child through a diagnostic assessment without them realising, but quite another for an older child who does not want to accept the possibility.  

    Someone should be working with her to help her see this could be useful to her and to understand that being autistic doesn't mean you're broken.  

    Got a friend going through similar with a young adult who got an ADHD diagnosis in school but we're convinced they missed him with respect to ASC.  It'll only be when he's ready though that he can ever be assessed.

  • Agree with you why do we seem know answers but battle get them? Will they ever be ready ?
     It’s where I need help most I think well I think whole system mental health needs big over haul it just not working 

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