My 8 year old daughter who is autistic has been really struggling to go to school this academic year, so since September.
For nearly two years (since schools went back post-pandemic) there’s been a gradual increase in her anxiety about going to school, starting with constantly feeling sick and culminating in two terms of panic attacks and refusal to go to school.
We have been trying to make sure she goes in so the refusal doesn’t escalate (which has been against my gut feeling) but at the end of last term she reached total burnout and just couldn’t go in. Or when she did she was in such a state I had to go and get her.
The school are very well-meaning but when do you just say enough is enough? The poor thing is getting totally traumatised, I can’t even say the word ‘school’ without her getting really distressed.
Maybe in writing this I’ve convinced myself that sitting out next term would be a good idea but it seems like such a drastic move.
I’d love to hear any advice from anyone who has been through similar, both autistic and carers. Thank you
