my son behaviour

hello i have a son of 7 years and i am a single parent he has severe asd and limited speech and quite a lot of sensory difficulties he as been using me as a punchbag since he was 4 years old but now because its 3 years on he is a lot stronger and harder and its beginning to have a severe effect on my health not to mention the bruises all over my arms and legs and the fact he tried strangling me on a train full of people the other week im at my wits end and thinking the only solution at this moment in time is care he does have respite 3 nights a month and all proffessionals involved i just dont know what to do can any1 help me before it gets to the point where he is gonna do something serious to me or vice versa i am scared of him but i also love him he is my world and my only child

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  • They are saying have say a firm no with the sign which is what I am doing but it seems to make him worse I have 3 nights a month respite which is essential to both me and my son has you say I'm just at a loss with his lashing out it has been going on too long to the point where I just can't cope anymore :-( don't get me wrong when he is happy he is lovely and gives loads of cuddles and kisses but it's getting to be where I see most of his anger side than his lovely side at the moment and where I think is it me am I doing something wrong because he is only like it with me 

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  • They are saying have say a firm no with the sign which is what I am doing but it seems to make him worse I have 3 nights a month respite which is essential to both me and my son has you say I'm just at a loss with his lashing out it has been going on too long to the point where I just can't cope anymore :-( don't get me wrong when he is happy he is lovely and gives loads of cuddles and kisses but it's getting to be where I see most of his anger side than his lovely side at the moment and where I think is it me am I doing something wrong because he is only like it with me 

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