Please help

Hi, My son is nineteen and has never been diagnosed with autism. i am in my heart and mind 100 per cent certain that he his autistic.  Is there anywhere my husband and I can go to get help with coping as it is tearing our lives apart and we constantly feel we are letting our son down which leads to guilt and a whole host of issues!!! our lives cant continue as they are i feel divorce in on the cards as we just csn not cope any more. we are desperate for help for us to try and help him.. does any one have any suggestions? thnk you

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  • He is a grown adult, first off all it needs to be about you, how this behaviours are effecting you and your relationship with your husband.

    This is a hard one to answer because you are getting the effect of the cause and looking for an explanation but he is an adult and is responsible for his own behaviours and cause and effect on others.

    You could try family counselling and see what happens or your son can talk himself to the GP to see if he can help in the situation. (if he sees one).

    Good luck.

     

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  • He is a grown adult, first off all it needs to be about you, how this behaviours are effecting you and your relationship with your husband.

    This is a hard one to answer because you are getting the effect of the cause and looking for an explanation but he is an adult and is responsible for his own behaviours and cause and effect on others.

    You could try family counselling and see what happens or your son can talk himself to the GP to see if he can help in the situation. (if he sees one).

    Good luck.

     

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