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My 8 year old and friends or lack of.

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So my son has always been a bit much when it comes to play. He’s a bit rough. A bit loud and doesn’t understand emotion overly. 
he likes to play with other children but gets pushed out a lot. He doesn’t get invited to children’s birthday parties at all. I’m not sure what I can do. I feel really bad for him. 
he’s been referred and accepted to cahms only last week. So we have a wait ahead. 
I am sure he has adhd. I have it. But likely something underlying too. Possibly Asperger’s. 
We are Eastleigh/Southampton way. Is there any groups or any suggestions from others that have been in this situation?? Thank you. 

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  • You can search the NAS website for local group listings.  

    In the meantime, you can continue to teach him about his emotions. Talk to him about the physical sensations he might be feeling when things go wrong.  Help him to recognise them, possibly with a visual scale, and suggest ways that he can calm himself or other things he can do when he's feeling cross.  We use "emotional coaching" in the school where I work and it's actually teaching me to understand my own emotions better.

    You could also arrange a supervised play date where you can observe his reactions and calmly help him to make better choices.

  • in reply to Glitter

    Didn’t realise I could find groups on here. Brilliant. Thank you!  
    ok I will try this and talk to the school too so we can work together. 
    that’s a good idea. I will try organise something for next week. 

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