My son is 8 almost 9 .
He communicates very well, however we are finding he wants everything his way and if we try to explain to him or discipline him, he just doesn't get it and answers backs to everything .
It's like hes in charge and trying to tell us what to do .
If we change the tone of our voice he thinks we are shouting .... he really struggles with school (mainstream) and when I ask what he doesn't like he says "there always shouting )
I always bring myself down thinking is it my parenting ,is he just spoilt or does he genuinely not get it , its so hard and when he gets into the answer back , meltdowns etc I feel judged from others that he just looks naughty.
I just feel a bit stressed and at a loose end .
