Understanding

Thank you!!

If your basic question is, "Am I doing the wrong thing by acceding to his wishes at all times?", then it depends on the context. If his requests/demands are not inconveniencing anyone else, including yourself, if they do not endanger himself or anyone else, and are not harmful in any other way, I don't think refusing them is particularly useful. If the requests are inconvenient or harmful, then showing firm boundaries by saying no, would probably be beneficial.

Thank you for your reply.

I think you misunderstood me, I don’t think that.

I was trying to get an more in depth understanding about it, I always go along with my son whatever he wishes to do, I never refrain him.

I ask these questions not offend but to understand autism more better so I can give my son the best care there is.

I think it is a mistake to think that all autistics are resistant to change, all the time. Some of us enjoy change, every so often, especially when it is our own choice to change something. We are people, we have whims; if your son chooses to do things differently I would not discourage it.