Son won’t accept diagnosis

Hello. My son is 13. He was diagnosed with ASD just over two weeks ago. This has taken a very long time with alot  of appointments etc. I’ve spoken to him as positive as I can throughout this time. When he received his diagnosis he wouldn’t accept it and broke his heart - he said I created it in my mind and made everyone believe he has ASD. Everytime it’s mentioned he cries and says I’ve ruined his life. I’ve decided to not talk about it and try and let him process the information. But in all honesty I can’t see him ever accepting it. 
also with his hormones raging etc I’m finding everything so tough - and how to deal with him. He has his first CBT session yesterday which didn’t go well. He cried when ASD was mentioned and then due to his awkward social skills he didn’t open up at all. I feel so lost on what to do. Any help would be appreciated. Thank you. 

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  • I think it's best to let the matter drop for a year or 2, por longer.  Its a long process and he is not ready and there may be issues at school etc so keep it all positive.  If you want to use my services you can and I will make ensure I do not bring up the subject until he 'opens up' -which is unlikely in the short term.

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  • I think it's best to let the matter drop for a year or 2, por longer.  Its a long process and he is not ready and there may be issues at school etc so keep it all positive.  If you want to use my services you can and I will make ensure I do not bring up the subject until he 'opens up' -which is unlikely in the short term.

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