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Mr "redacted- I know damn well who you are"

Paul M.

I have spent the past 4+ weeks advising my mother that a particular person was up to no good with her, he placed every accusation under the sun on her and despite me telling him during a phone conversation that she wasn't the type of woman to "chat up blokes", I am aware he frequents this board and I am pretty sure I know who he is, because I am not autistic and can spot "them" from a mile away, I am pretty certain he is still trying to do his BS with my autistic mother under a different name

Back. the. F&*k. off.

Do not make me namedrop you, I will do it and I have a strong hunch which "NAS$$$$$$" name you are going under.

You're very charismatic and very good at "chemistry", very good at the "woe is me" nonsense, leave my mom alone you piece of Human Detritus, I explicitly told you that you were more than welcome to visit and if you had any issues to phone me or my mother beforehand (you know what I am talking about), you did not, I gave you more than enough concessions, you did what you have always done though out your "relationship" with my mother, false promises alongside nonsensical you tube song videos.

Do. Not. Push. Me.

Find other prey!. 

On a serious note, How can I be a better son to my mother, I struggle greatly to understand her needs.

There it is.

Paul M.

Consigning this to the eternity of online interactions in 3, 2, 1.

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  • Hi Paul. I'm sorry this is happening to you and your mum. I'd be upset if it was my mum. Different situation but when my sister was bullied at school I flipped and called the person out. So I do understand how you feel. I hope you're mum is ok and that you can get things sorted.

    Regarding being a better son ... To be fair what you write above shows what a caring and loving son you are. Sometimes when I struggle to help understand others needs I look it up online how to understand better lol. Sometimes it helps sometimes it doesn't. I'm not the best with people. Truth is I've been in hospital for months and have very little contact with others other than nurses and I prefer that. 

    So you could look up understanding needs online other than that I'm not sure. Sorry.

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  • Hi Paul. I'm sorry this is happening to you and your mum. I'd be upset if it was my mum. Different situation but when my sister was bullied at school I flipped and called the person out. So I do understand how you feel. I hope you're mum is ok and that you can get things sorted.

    Regarding being a better son ... To be fair what you write above shows what a caring and loving son you are. Sometimes when I struggle to help understand others needs I look it up online how to understand better lol. Sometimes it helps sometimes it doesn't. I'm not the best with people. Truth is I've been in hospital for months and have very little contact with others other than nurses and I prefer that. 

    So you could look up understanding needs online other than that I'm not sure. Sorry.

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  • in reply to Ava

    Thank you for the response Ava.

    I won't name him but my mom met someone on this board and I not being autistic myself, well who knows I've never been diagnosed for it, I had bad feelings about him early on, it was causing my mom a great deal of stress.

    great "chemistry" and humour, but he had a nastier side to him (something which if it is genuine mental health issues I hope he seeks help for now that I have calmed down). Very good at making promises with no actions, consistently, making claims about my own mother who I live with that I know are false.

    So there was a temper in my first post, I apologize for the "fury" displayed in my post, but I genuinely am convinced he was someone who enjoys the messing with peoples head and as I knew he frequented this board, I wanted to give a somewhat warning to him alone to leave my mom alone while she is on here, this is one of the few social contacts she has and I do not want somebody messing that up for her, protective instincts kicked in you could say.