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NAS79127

Hello 

my daughter is 21 and is in the waiting list for a diagnosis, but I feel like I am failing her everyday, sometimes I think I understand then it all goes *** up!

it’s a constant battle everyday, arguments tears I feel guilty for her and my other daughters I am trying to keep everything going but I am drained and to be honest I don’t think I can take much more

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  • Giving up is not an option at all. If anything that will be more damaging then fighting through it.

    She is obviously going through a tough time and you are clearly struggling as well.

    Have you done any reading into Autism?

    Without wanting to be construed as rude or crass, when you get into arguments, do you say things such as;

    Don't be stupid

    Grow up

    What may seem logical and normal to you, is probably not logical or normal to your daughter 

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  • Giving up is not an option at all. If anything that will be more damaging then fighting through it.

    She is obviously going through a tough time and you are clearly struggling as well.

    Have you done any reading into Autism?

    Without wanting to be construed as rude or crass, when you get into arguments, do you say things such as;

    Don't be stupid

    Grow up

    What may seem logical and normal to you, is probably not logical or normal to your daughter 

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