Incident involving police

Hi again, another difficult day. My daughter had a great day at school but she had a Sport lesson which is offsite. She does walking in the forest. She only had 1 staff member with her this time, but there was another pupil who had 2 staff with them and there were all in the forest together just doing their own things. My daughter's staff went to the toilet and she waited outside with one of the other students staff. Unfortunately, my daughter started to wonder off, so the staff had to follow her but then her proper staff member caught up. Apparently she was walking through the woods and then walked into the road to cross without looking, then walked through the woods on the other side. But then, she started to walk in the middle of the road, which was very unsafe because it was raining a lot. She didn't have a cot on either so she was cold and wet. Her staff followed next to her trying to keep her safe but she could't hold her or touch her because it was too unsafe. Obviously, she let the school know about the situation and they had to call the police because she was being very unsafe. In the meantime, because nothing had changed or calmed down, the school took a car up to meet them to help. They were around 30/40 minutes away from school. 

Her staff kept doing the things that would calm my daughter down and tried to help but nothing worked. She asked if she wanted to chat. Tried the guessing game about what's wrong. Then she tried distracting her, telling her some funny things but she was absolutely silent and didn't want to chat. I don't know what will happen next and what the school should do to put in place. Maybe an extra staff member. I'm just lost again. I don't know what they can do to help. I don't know why she keeps putting herself into these situations. Why does she keep walking in the road? It's scaring me. 

Parents
  • I have been reading some of your posts and I can imagine how stressful you life should be!  You are such a wonderful mum!  

    With regard to the school, is she is in a private special school or a state run one? I do not know anything about special schools, but was wondering if there is any therapy that the school can provide to help with the situation. Has a psychiatrist seen your child? If not it might be worth pushing that route to see what is the underlying issue and how to address it. Also given the security risk involved perhaps it might be worth looking at safer places that the school can opt for when looking to take the pupils outdoors.  

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  • I have been reading some of your posts and I can imagine how stressful you life should be!  You are such a wonderful mum!  

    With regard to the school, is she is in a private special school or a state run one? I do not know anything about special schools, but was wondering if there is any therapy that the school can provide to help with the situation. Has a psychiatrist seen your child? If not it might be worth pushing that route to see what is the underlying issue and how to address it. Also given the security risk involved perhaps it might be worth looking at safer places that the school can opt for when looking to take the pupils outdoors.  

Children
  • The school does a risk assessment before they leave to take the young child out. The child will usually have control about where they go and what route to take and what staff they could have if they don't want the one that is usually with them. The school does have an OT therapist which is coming in to help with her and what they can do to help regards to sensory needs and the best course of action.