Should I tell my 8 year old son what's going on and that he might be autistic?

I have been invited to an initial assessment (via zoom) and they have asked that my son is present - but I cannot find out what they are going to ask him in the meeting. When I rang, the receptionist told me it was to go through the forms I filled in but I wouldn't want him to see what I wrote on the forms as he might be upset as it tackled some tricky subjects.  I am reluctant to involve my son as I have never mentioned to him that he might be autistic. Is it better to broach the subject or will the paediatrician just ask some basic questions and not mentioned th 'a' word? I don't really want him to know - I was just going to say it was a basic developmental assessment.

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  • ^^^ concur with G & H above (BTW: Can't believe how many syllables these two names have between them!).

    I cried after my assessment at 50 years old... mainly after reflecting what high-school and life ever since could have been like if I was armed with the knowledge of my autism.

    Children are generally more flexible/adaptable than their adult selves.

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  • ^^^ concur with G & H above (BTW: Can't believe how many syllables these two names have between them!).

    I cried after my assessment at 50 years old... mainly after reflecting what high-school and life ever since could have been like if I was armed with the knowledge of my autism.

    Children are generally more flexible/adaptable than their adult selves.

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