Son broke his glasses friday morning. He's unable to see without them so I made an apt friday night to get them fixed at the opticians. Our opticians is in a huge shopping centre, I can't pull him out of school to go and I'm not talkng him on a busy weekend so 6pm weekday seemed like an ok time.
Got to the centre, walked straight to the opticians and he was ok. Fixed his glasses in under 10mins BUT as they had new parts on my son could feel they were different and this started his worrying and upset.
We left the shop to head back to the car as quickly as possible but only made it to the centre entrance before the mother of all meltdowns. My son stood in the doorway to the shopping centre scrraming, punching, kicking, headbutting and scratching me. I did everything I possibly could to try and comfort him, try and get him back to his safe space of the car. Tried to reassure him and calm him down but all to no avail. He is far too big and heavy for me to lift up and he wasn't moving of his own accord. Hundreds of people were walking in and out of the centre and just staring at us and gossiping (I'm used to this) but then security appeared.
No help was offered, they stood with phones in their hands stating at us, like I was a criminal because my son was distressed. Finally, after 20mins I got my son out of the centre and into the car park - meltdown still in progress. Security continued to follow us outside, still staring with phones in their hand. More people standing and watching us as my son launched his glasses into the road.
After he finally calmed a bit, I managed to get him into the car and strapped in safe but security stood and watched until we pulled away.
I now feel like the police or social services will turn up at any moment accusing me of trying to harm or abduct him! I don't know if security were reporting us or filming us or what. I'm terrified of ever taking him out again
