Possible 3 in the family

My son was diagnosed just over four years when he was 8. During a parenting course I realised that I too am possibly autistic. Now we are awaiting an assessment on our 8 year old daughter. I always believed her behaviours were learnt from watching her brother, but the older she has got the more confusing it is becoming. We are also wondering if an element of PDA might be playing a part with her. My husband is really struggling with all of this, living with 3 people possibly with ASD. I worry one day he might resent me as it would appear the gene has come from me.

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  • I understand, the more I learn about my son the more I do genuinely believe  I have autistic tendancies and can identify and have struggled in workplaces and school.

    My son's father believes I have done something to make him like this, I'm too coddling, I spoil him...

    The fact is that's not true. My family has no history of autism. Either does his. But  family history diagnosis has no credit as autism was wrongly diagnosed for decades.

    The fact he is struggling with it makes me think he has a certain ASD himself .

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  • I understand, the more I learn about my son the more I do genuinely believe  I have autistic tendancies and can identify and have struggled in workplaces and school.

    My son's father believes I have done something to make him like this, I'm too coddling, I spoil him...

    The fact is that's not true. My family has no history of autism. Either does his. But  family history diagnosis has no credit as autism was wrongly diagnosed for decades.

    The fact he is struggling with it makes me think he has a certain ASD himself .

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