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You don't look Autistic ??

NAS70994

Hi  All,

I'm not one who gets involved with online forums around my problems namely mental health ,autism. But sometimes i feel the need to vent my frustration. I do have serious problems but i get on with it no matter how bad they are. I go for dog walks and  my eyes look like i've been sobbing for a month ? when i feel the need to explain to someone about my problems without going on to much all i get back is 'well you don't look autistic' ? 

I't winds me up to the point where i want to say something ,and i just think whatever !  I have never felt in all my life that i'm being driven to isolation. I have had recent suicidal thoughts which have been absolutely horrendous but i just kept going. 

I had depression so bad i don't honestly think i could explain what it felt like. support is a word i now treat as a joke ? although i have had a anxiety disorder for 25 yrs and mental health problems i have always had mostly good jobs.

But i have only been told of autism diagnosis this year from my psychiatrist, i feel so hard done by why this wasn't picked up a long,long time ago ?   I am not actually in employment at the moment ,and wish to work in the mental health field. 

I'm speechless at some of the people who are supposed to be there to support people like us and  simply don't have a clue ?  It is a joke.

My problem is that i will not be trodden all over or fobbed off,and i will defend my human rights and entitlements' to my last breath . I'm in norfolk does anybody have any ideas about support and getting involved with like minded adults in my area.

Regards

mark.

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  • there is no help for us pal. Ive been told i dont look autistic. What do autistic people look like lol? Tell them not to comment as they have no clue. I was diagnosed with autosm in 2006 im 29 now male from The uk. U wouldnt tell looking at me. I feel like im struggling more now im older and i havemt been able to find any help ive been trying for a few years. We just gotta keep head up and keep it moving

  • in reply to NAS73881

    Fed up with looking for support for normal ? autistic adults. I think it may be a question of lump it and like it. The support seems to be for children or people who are severely ill ?  I suffer with dreadful mental health problems for a long time but I've never bothered to get help . 

  • in reply to NAS70994

    true, when googling or searching for diagnosis or help of any kind its always focused on children as if adults dont exist lol

    this is just the case of the helper only helping to want to feel good about themselves.... they will feel good "helping" children, but adults are just adults, adults dont have the same feel as helping a child to them, so they find it not worth it, after all the helper doesnt want to help but rather wants to signal to others that they are helping as a pathetic social thing to make themselves look better rather than actually helping. they get more social points helping a child than a adult. when the child becomes adult they discard the child and no longer care about that life as it holds no social point value to them to help no more lol

  • in reply to Deleted User

    could be, if they consider that they can get better results catching it early. while a adult is set in their ways and harder to help so could be about limited funds combined with trying to get the best results. adult is likely already too screwed and set on a off cliff course and cannot be saved, child can be prevented from going on that off cliff course entirely. although this kinda would end up neglecting those that would need help most.

  • in reply to Caelus

    I wonder if it could be more to do with funding

  • in reply to Caelus

    Caelus

    Caelus said:
    but rather wants to signal to others that they are helping as a pathetic social thing to make themselves look better

    It's known as Virtue Signalling, and there's a lot of it about.

    Ben

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