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School and social issues

NAS73749

Help!! I’m new to this group but really need some advice from people who understand where I’m coming from. My daughter is 13 and struggles like crazy with the social side of school, she has no friends and finds school life very difficult, she is currently getting upset on certain days randomly and won’t go to school because she masks the whole time and then has meltdowns where she can’t cope at home and needs a day off to recover. Especially changes where she doesn’t know how the day will go makes her very anxious and I have to keep her home. School are so unsupportive and don’t help her one bit. Currently in process of changing school or thinking about taking her out completely, any advice would be great. 

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  • sorry but school is hell for us. none of us would have good experiences in school unless perhaps they were diagnosed and maybe had some form of support? but most generally wasnt diagnosed and thus was thrown to the sharks.... 

    if you was wanting advice off me, it would be that high schools are fecking useless and out of control and dont teach you anything anyway. it is best to skip high school all together if possible, your kid will learn more at home by themselves. they will go through alot of mental trauma at school and be bullied alot and the teachers will likely pick the popular kids side and join in and even then biasedly give your kid crap grades for no reason aside from failing lifes popularity contest. school sucks, the only best way is to avoid it. it doesnt teach anything anyway, but i guess its illegal to avoid it so.... i guess you cant take that advice.... me personally the end of my school years i just went in as usual then broke out and spent the day in the bushes outside of school until it was home time and skipped hundreds of days this way without anyone even noticing.... my absence was noticed only 2 times i think.... anyway my most fondest memory of school was sitting in the bushes skipping it! lmao

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  • sorry but school is hell for us. none of us would have good experiences in school unless perhaps they were diagnosed and maybe had some form of support? but most generally wasnt diagnosed and thus was thrown to the sharks.... 

    if you was wanting advice off me, it would be that high schools are fecking useless and out of control and dont teach you anything anyway. it is best to skip high school all together if possible, your kid will learn more at home by themselves. they will go through alot of mental trauma at school and be bullied alot and the teachers will likely pick the popular kids side and join in and even then biasedly give your kid crap grades for no reason aside from failing lifes popularity contest. school sucks, the only best way is to avoid it. it doesnt teach anything anyway, but i guess its illegal to avoid it so.... i guess you cant take that advice.... me personally the end of my school years i just went in as usual then broke out and spent the day in the bushes outside of school until it was home time and skipped hundreds of days this way without anyone even noticing.... my absence was noticed only 2 times i think.... anyway my most fondest memory of school was sitting in the bushes skipping it! lmao

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