My son is 19 was diagnosed asd/adhd at age 16. I now realise how he treats me sometimes is abusive. I've had enough and unsure what to do about it
80% of the time he is ok. The other 20% is him swearing at me and calling me the mosr disgusting names. Sometimes its in front of his 5 year old brother.
The other day it was because he got a dvd from eBay and it was scratched and wouldn't work. I tried a to give him a few ideas but i apparently i was a f**cking mong,fat b**tech e.t.c
I tell him to stop e.t.c. but nothign works. If its not swearing he will punch things,sometimes he will throw things at me.
The reason why i feel so upset is because his biological dad used to be abusive towards me and used to call me names. It just brings it all back .
Anyway he comes down later that day and says he's sorry. How can i teach him to control what comes out his mouth.