Meltdowns if I go out without her.

Hi, I'm new to this but am really struggling and hoping talking on here may help. My daughter is 15 and this last year with lockdown has been really tough, as I know it has been for everyone. We have a carer who is a godsend. Before COVID hit the carer would take her out and it would give me a break. Throughout the whole lockdown we didn't have the carer as she understandably didn't feel safe. As a result my daughter has become very clingy as has been by my side constantly for the last year. I can't even pop to the local shop without her having a full on meltdown. I'm at the point now I just want to go and spend some time with my friends but I can't handle the meltdowns. Her Dad's here, he can go out no problem but if I go out it's the end of the world. I always end up feeling guilty. 

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  • Hi NAS66453,

    Thank you for sharing this with our community. COVID is a challenging time, and I am glad you're sharing this with us.

    You may like to contact our Autism Helpline team. The helpline is the place to talk about your concern and find out some more information about your options. You can call them on 0808 800 4104 (Monday to Friday 10 am to 3 pm. Please note that the Helpline is experiencing a high volume of calls, and it may take a couple of attempts before you get through to speak to an adviser.

    Best,

    Eunice Mod

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  • Hi NAS66453,

    Thank you for sharing this with our community. COVID is a challenging time, and I am glad you're sharing this with us.

    You may like to contact our Autism Helpline team. The helpline is the place to talk about your concern and find out some more information about your options. You can call them on 0808 800 4104 (Monday to Friday 10 am to 3 pm. Please note that the Helpline is experiencing a high volume of calls, and it may take a couple of attempts before you get through to speak to an adviser.

    Best,

    Eunice Mod

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