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Need help and advice for 8 year olds aggressive behaviour

Hayley H

can anyone please give me advice ! Our 8 year  old in the past 6 months has become so angry he becomes quickly irritated and angry which leads to screaming hair pulling head whacking . I can ease him out of the meltdown but am so unsure how to deal with the discipline from the behaviour when it’s throwing things hurting his sister shouting go away etc . Sorry for long message it’s just breaking my heart .

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  • It’s a tough one really - I’m not a parent so I can only advise on my personal experience and personal views (my godson was also autistic, as is my nephew - so I have a little insight) I think discipline is vital because if it goes unchallenged it can become normalised but at the same time it’s got to be balanced and targeted as in discipline should be for hurting his sister not because he’s having a meltdown if that makes sense? It’s a really fine balance between letting him know you understand he’s struggling and applying enough discipline that he learns he can’t just hurt people as and when he feels like it. That’s my views anyway. 

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  • It’s a tough one really - I’m not a parent so I can only advise on my personal experience and personal views (my godson was also autistic, as is my nephew - so I have a little insight) I think discipline is vital because if it goes unchallenged it can become normalised but at the same time it’s got to be balanced and targeted as in discipline should be for hurting his sister not because he’s having a meltdown if that makes sense? It’s a really fine balance between letting him know you understand he’s struggling and applying enough discipline that he learns he can’t just hurt people as and when he feels like it. That’s my views anyway. 

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