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HappyDays

hi everyone,

im sooo fed up at the moment. its just one thing after another, after another. im sick up to the back teeth of problems related to school. most recently my daughter at special school seems to be having problems with a teaching assistant, who just dosnt seem to understand Autism very well, and the difficulties my daughter has, ive had to phone the school to sort things out before they get out of hand. im gutted really we as a family with other autistic chidren have always had problems with settings but i thought this one was ok. eldest daughter having a nightmare at her school, bullies etc i have one boy at home and i just cant find a setting suitable, was looking at an autism specific but reading their policys put me off, apparantly if you have a problem with the way the school deals with somthing the school will look into it however if you are not satisfied with the outcome, the school can refuse to investigate further and if you continue to complain they will do you for harassment.?.not good if you genuinly feel the school is wrong. i usually keep plodding on but im just not myself at the moment, at an apointment last week with my daughter someone suggested somthing to me that has knocked me off course a bit. My family has disowned us becsuse they cant cope with us all, and i dont have friends i dont really do friends, and those i do get dont hang around for long. im just fed up. will anything ever go right?

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  • hello we are in the throws of conflict with school and Lea who are on our side but alas school  well lets just say are not acting in the right  way and in line with what they should be the worry levels are through the roof. my son 13yrs just recently diagnosed with aspergers after a four year dialogue with various agencies   now my boy is depressed and is at a crucial time of his schooling and we cannot afford to mess it up for him any longer . we are forced into looking at other schools despite . lea saying he should be in mainstream school with help we havent been offered help so am doing cog behaviour with my son to help him understand himself....there are d a ys shen i feel fed up too and get weary in the battle but what keeps me going is, my son and sounds to me that you are a fab mum and are doing your best and that is enough . i do hope it get resolved in some way and your not alone truely your not........so hang on in there your family are your true north........thinking of you

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  • hello we are in the throws of conflict with school and Lea who are on our side but alas school  well lets just say are not acting in the right  way and in line with what they should be the worry levels are through the roof. my son 13yrs just recently diagnosed with aspergers after a four year dialogue with various agencies   now my boy is depressed and is at a crucial time of his schooling and we cannot afford to mess it up for him any longer . we are forced into looking at other schools despite . lea saying he should be in mainstream school with help we havent been offered help so am doing cog behaviour with my son to help him understand himself....there are d a ys shen i feel fed up too and get weary in the battle but what keeps me going is, my son and sounds to me that you are a fab mum and are doing your best and that is enough . i do hope it get resolved in some way and your not alone truely your not........so hang on in there your family are your true north........thinking of you

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