fed up.

hi everyone,

im sooo fed up at the moment. its just one thing after another, after another. im sick up to the back teeth of problems related to school. most recently my daughter at special school seems to be having problems with a teaching assistant, who just dosnt seem to understand Autism very well, and the difficulties my daughter has, ive had to phone the school to sort things out before they get out of hand. im gutted really we as a family with other autistic chidren have always had problems with settings but i thought this one was ok. eldest daughter having a nightmare at her school, bullies etc i have one boy at home and i just cant find a setting suitable, was looking at an autism specific but reading their policys put me off, apparantly if you have a problem with the way the school deals with somthing the school will look into it however if you are not satisfied with the outcome, the school can refuse to investigate further and if you continue to complain they will do you for harassment.?.not good if you genuinly feel the school is wrong. i usually keep plodding on but im just not myself at the moment, at an apointment last week with my daughter someone suggested somthing to me that has knocked me off course a bit. My family has disowned us becsuse they cant cope with us all, and i dont have friends i dont really do friends, and those i do get dont hang around for long. im just fed up. will anything ever go right?

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  • I dont really know what to say other than i know how desperate and isolating it can be sometimes. I only have the one autistic child, a 4yr old boy, who is driving my husband and i to despair and im 6 months pregnant with a girl who im praying will not be ASD however i bet she will be! I cant imagine how you must be feeling with you having more than one child but i really admire you for coping. Chin up, you never know whats around the corner :)

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  • I dont really know what to say other than i know how desperate and isolating it can be sometimes. I only have the one autistic child, a 4yr old boy, who is driving my husband and i to despair and im 6 months pregnant with a girl who im praying will not be ASD however i bet she will be! I cant imagine how you must be feeling with you having more than one child but i really admire you for coping. Chin up, you never know whats around the corner :)

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