Strong suspicion my 1 year old has autism

My 1 year old son will be 2 very soon and I’ve thought for a long while that he’s autistic. My gut instinct tells me he is. He is showing a lot of the signs such as poor eye contact, non verbal and his understanding is certainly not there. He is very cuddly, he doesn’t struggle with change in routine and doesn’t seem to have sensory issues. 
He’a a very chilled calm toddler and a little joy. I adore him. The health visitor has concerns too and he has been referred to professionals for support.

I’m just finding it really hard watching other children the same age (my friends who we all had babies together and online) develop and start talking. It breaks my heart every time and I feel lonely in it. 

I’m so worried about the future, unsure if he will ever talk or whether he will live independently. Would be lovely to hear from anyone who’s felt this way as I feel on my own. X

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  • Hello.

    I am exactly the same position. I have a one year old daughter who is the same. My gut instinct also is the same and I also feel sad sometimes when I see other children her age developing.

    I’ve stopped wanting to socialise with other mums like I used to, even though I know It isn’t  something to be sad about. I guess it’s hard at the beginning, coming to terms and that’s a human nature instinct! 

    nice to know someone else out there feeling the same! X 

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  • Hello.

    I am exactly the same position. I have a one year old daughter who is the same. My gut instinct also is the same and I also feel sad sometimes when I see other children her age developing.

    I’ve stopped wanting to socialise with other mums like I used to, even though I know It isn’t  something to be sad about. I guess it’s hard at the beginning, coming to terms and that’s a human nature instinct! 

    nice to know someone else out there feeling the same! X 

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