Welcome to the forum, other members will probably have loads of helpful advice for you, but check out the pages on family life they have loads of information that can help as well as links to resources
I think the link for the parent to parent service is also on there. As for education for you nas has several training courses available if it's finding education techniques to work with your daughter there is info here
You may also like to look at the communication pages as these can be really helpful
You should also be able to contact the place that diagnosed your daughter as I think it is fairly common for people to have questions and be completely thrown at the time.
This forum and it's members have provided me with so much help and advice for my daughter.
Anyway I know it seems daunting as there is so much information out there but you are obviously a loving mother and that can mean everything to your child.
Thanks for the advice, have found some great tips and ideas for where to go next! Have been told quite abit now that all she needs from me is love, ive learned that she's happy no matter what so im one very happy mum