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Computer addict

Johnsmum

My son spends several hours every day on his computer, mostly playing games or music, though I have a suspicion he may have viewed porn as well. As he is a teenager, it's probably too late to start imposing a time limit on computer time (besides which, if he weren't on the computer, he would only be watching TV).

Do others think that too much computer time is not good for our kids? I would love him to be making friends but he never invites anyone home from school, and they don't invite him. If they did, of course, they would end up playing computer games together! But at least it would be social.

We have very good provision in our area for social activities for kids on the spectrum, but I get a feeling he doesn't want to go to something that is especially for kids like him.

Would love to hear others' thoughts on computers, socializing, etc, especially for older teenagers.

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  • Ok, this is where problems occur.

    Do NOT stop them from being on the computer.

    I was identical to that, and am currently studying Computer Science at top of my class.

    Due to being on the computer so much I didn't drink much, I didn't turn to "legal drugs" and I didn't commit acts of vandalism with my freinds.

    And need for social interaction? They fulfill this at school, try letting them relax a bit, for all you know they might become the next Steve Jobs or the next Alan Turing.

     

    As a side note, I think you would preffer they saw porn than have a girl's dad coming to your door about your son getting his daughter pregnant.

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  • Ok, this is where problems occur.

    Do NOT stop them from being on the computer.

    I was identical to that, and am currently studying Computer Science at top of my class.

    Due to being on the computer so much I didn't drink much, I didn't turn to "legal drugs" and I didn't commit acts of vandalism with my freinds.

    And need for social interaction? They fulfill this at school, try letting them relax a bit, for all you know they might become the next Steve Jobs or the next Alan Turing.

     

    As a side note, I think you would preffer they saw porn than have a girl's dad coming to your door about your son getting his daughter pregnant.

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