Hi im new to this but i have a 5 year old son who has autism , when i first applied for him to go into the mainsteam school he is in they said it was fine an they would help anyway they could . 6 months later we all had a meeting an was informed that they have applied for grant or help so he can have one to one and it was granted , however he is still not getting the one 2 one help he is about to go in to year 2 he has had some time off due to my dad having cancer then dying so they said they wont use the money until hes in school but when he is in school he comes out unchanged( toilet training is behind) and hes even come out with bruises and a bite on his neck . i dont want to send him into school anymore hes not my child when he comes out . how can i get him the help i want him into school but i just wish he had the help . This money has been available fo his one 2 one since jan 2010 .