Published on 12, July, 2020
my girlfriend well I think she is has had a meltdown freak out shut down what ever you want to call it, we have only been together 5 months and it was perfect. no fights no falling out just bliss happiness and love, the last few weeks she's been getting colder and colder so asked if we was ok as not cuddled kissed in days phone calls were shorter or not happening then I noticed her personal care was dropping she just said she wasn't feeling well and she was happy with me. then 11 days ago she calls me up screaming I can't do this anymore I'm going to lose my kids we are done I'm sorry I need space my dad's going to have to look after me, I turned and looked at my mate because we was playing the Xbox "dude you hear that wtf" I called back no answer. I must of called about 10 times the next day and the next following days nothing left it 4 days nothing,so last night I bought a gift and wrote her a letter today the police turn up and tell me to back off she will be in touch when she wants. only problem with that I'm stuck with no car as that was at hers as she borrowed it. I've got she'd loads of her stuff at mine a holiday booked in 12 days and she owes me money as well. please I really do love this girl but how can I get through to her we need to talk. I don't know if we are together or not I'm a mess?
It sounds like you are quite confused by her behaviour. Maybe she has had a break down of some description? As hard as it is you are going to have to respect her wishes and leave her alone, especially now she has involved the police. However, on a practical level you do need to get your car back, as you have no way of knowing when or if she will contact you I would suggest that you phone the police station tomorrow and explain that you have been asked to leave her alone but please can they retrieve your car, this is a reasonable request and I don’t see why they wouldn’t arrange that for you.
already asked they said give her space and time and she will get in touch at some point. I don't care about the stuff it's her and her kids I want to be with. if we had been fight I could get it but this is messing me up. i called her dad or and he's not called so I know something is up
That’s not very understanding of them! I know it’s difficult but you’re going to have to stop calling her and her dad. She’s obviously got stuff going on at the moment, I don’t know what that is.
I am new to all this, I thought she has had a breakdown or overload. I would just like to holder close kiss her head and tell her I'm here waiting take as long as you need