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I’ve made it to over 60 years old. Your son IS diagnosed, so he has some understanding where his problems stem from. He is not alone. Meanwhile I am concerned for yourself. Don’t lose yourself in all this. You both need support from another person as you are maybe too interdependent. I think that’s the right word.

Meanwhile your son could look into forums like this one and also any local chances to meet up with others of similar age and difficulties as well as shared interests.

You could look for support from other parents for YOURSELF. The support helpline numbers are important too, as well as talking to Samaritans.  I had a disastrous effect on my mother when I was a teenager, but without understanding why. So please, look after yourself. 

I’ve made it to over 60 years old. Your son IS diagnosed, so he has some understanding where his problems stem from. He is not alone. Meanwhile I am concerned for yourself. Don’t lose yourself in all this. You both need support from another person as you are maybe too interdependent. I think that’s the right word.

Meanwhile your son could look into forums like this one and also any local chances to meet up with others of similar age and difficulties as well as shared interests.

You could look for support from other parents for YOURSELF. The support helpline numbers are important too, as well as talking to Samaritans.  I had a disastrous effect on my mother when I was a teenager, but without understanding why. So please, look after yourself.