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That horrible feeling

shoekitten

Today at work I just felt out of sorts. It seemed that colleagues were blanking me ie hugging each other hello but I got a vague "hi", when I asked how everyones weekend was no one bothered to answer but seemed to be having an animated chat amongst themselves. My supervisor seemed to make a few pointed remarks about 'a bad atmosphere' though I wasn't aware of any problems. In my mind it seemed to be directed at me.

I've had a horrible sinking feeling in my stomach, thinking I did something really wrong that no one has spoken to me about. Also I feel paranoid, as if every move I make is being watched. Am I alone? Is this an AS thing?

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  • Hey, 

    Im afriad this is not at all a AS matter... i have lived through so tough times and learnt a lot about the human behaviour along the way. The reality is that not every person cares and wont care if they dont need to. At times this can be hurtful and nice people never seem to get the respect they deserve. its all about confidence and believeing in yourself. NEVER let someone make you feel that your not important because at the end of the day were all people who have come on this earth and will leave in the same way, rich, poor, fat, thin... were all the same! somepeople are just stupid and think there to good for somepeople. Half the time this is a sad thing because the more people that think there too good for someone loses the chance to have a friend for life. I wouldnt worry at all about these people. if they dont wont to bother its there loss not yours just remember be confident and take life as a pinch of salt as worrying is like a rocking chair it gives you something to do but will get you no where :-) take care x

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  • Hey, 

    Im afriad this is not at all a AS matter... i have lived through so tough times and learnt a lot about the human behaviour along the way. The reality is that not every person cares and wont care if they dont need to. At times this can be hurtful and nice people never seem to get the respect they deserve. its all about confidence and believeing in yourself. NEVER let someone make you feel that your not important because at the end of the day were all people who have come on this earth and will leave in the same way, rich, poor, fat, thin... were all the same! somepeople are just stupid and think there to good for somepeople. Half the time this is a sad thing because the more people that think there too good for someone loses the chance to have a friend for life. I wouldnt worry at all about these people. if they dont wont to bother its there loss not yours just remember be confident and take life as a pinch of salt as worrying is like a rocking chair it gives you something to do but will get you no where :-) take care x

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