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Girls Clothes

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This is quite personal, but it's been on my mind for ages now so I really want to try and get it off my chest.

I'm 19yrs old and since about primary school I've always loved girl's clothes, the way they feel and look and also girl's things like dolls and toys. This includes wearing girl clothes, like my mums underwear, tops, dresses etc. I know sometimes this can be thought of as gay, but I'm not, I love women and would one day love to get married. But sometimes this does bother me. It's been going on for years now and I've tried to tell my Dad or my Mum but I always back down. My Aspergers involves compulsive worrying and that's also something along with being very quiet which I've had my entire life. I have real trouble talking about things with my parent's, which is strange because they're really understanding and kind.

I've looked this up online and a lot of other people are like it. I just really want to know if anyone else here has had similar or the same experiences as me?

I have sometimes wished that I was a girl, I think I would be a lot happier, but again I've never properly spoken to my parent's about it. I know wearing my mum's clothing is wrong, I shouldn't do it behind her back but she's the only female in our house and as I don't have a job because of my mental health I couldn't buy girl clothes even if I wanted to. Despite this I spend a lot of time on Amazon looking at girl clothes wishing that I could buy some. I also look at girl wigs and imagine how different I'd look if I had one and was wearing girl clothes.
When I wear girl clothes, it doesn't feel strange, it feels kind of right but what I don't like is not being truthful with Mum and Dad. They're such loving people, but this is such a personal thing I just don't know who to talk to about it... :/

Does anyone here feel like this? If you do then please post a reply, it'd really help to see how you coped with this or something similar.

Hugs.

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  • I recently answered a thread on here from a transgender person in their mid twenties I think. Stick around and you may be able to have good chat with others that share the same need. I think you are who you are. I never cared what others thought of me. Honestly, it has only been in the last 10 years I have worked on being more acceptable for society, like saying goodmorning or smiling at people. Anyhow, I urge you to be who you feel you are. Surround yourself with accepting people. Life is too short and we only get this one time to live it (not meant to offend any religious views). A lady once told me that this isn't a dress rehearsal, this is the real thing. 

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  • I recently answered a thread on here from a transgender person in their mid twenties I think. Stick around and you may be able to have good chat with others that share the same need. I think you are who you are. I never cared what others thought of me. Honestly, it has only been in the last 10 years I have worked on being more acceptable for society, like saying goodmorning or smiling at people. Anyhow, I urge you to be who you feel you are. Surround yourself with accepting people. Life is too short and we only get this one time to live it (not meant to offend any religious views). A lady once told me that this isn't a dress rehearsal, this is the real thing. 

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