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Swearing and Hitting

Scanavis

Hi,

I have an 11 year old boy with Aspergers and ADHD. When he gets angry and frustrated with clothing issues, he swears and often hits out at me.

Any ideas on how to deal with this?

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  • I'm not a parent, and may be stating the obvious, but have you got rid of the uncomfortable clothes and replaced them with comfortable ones (if you know what he finds comfortable)? I would have thought eliminating the cause would be infinitely more effective than purely trying to relieve the symptoms of discomfort (swearing and hitting).

    If the problematic clothing is standard school clothing, the school should be willing to agree alternatives, as a reasonable adjustment to his conditions (legally defined as a disability).

    Beyond these practical steps, getting support and having a chance to express what it's like for you is likely to be helpful for your emotional health and ability to cope. Posting here is a good start.

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  • I'm not a parent, and may be stating the obvious, but have you got rid of the uncomfortable clothes and replaced them with comfortable ones (if you know what he finds comfortable)? I would have thought eliminating the cause would be infinitely more effective than purely trying to relieve the symptoms of discomfort (swearing and hitting).

    If the problematic clothing is standard school clothing, the school should be willing to agree alternatives, as a reasonable adjustment to his conditions (legally defined as a disability).

    Beyond these practical steps, getting support and having a chance to express what it's like for you is likely to be helpful for your emotional health and ability to cope. Posting here is a good start.

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