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Day of Getting Nowhere

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Having a bit of a difficult time, on going situation with Neighbours come in to play again this morning. After been exhausted from a difficult week, have come to terms with the situation, but still finding it exhausting. Refused neighbor access, after repeatedly saying no, for over 10 minutes. Then a little later I get call from my landlord, saying I was very rude to the neighbour when they asked; I was not rude at all. Basically landlord wants an easy life, so nothing I could do. I have come to terms with the overall situation after discussing it on here before, it still consumes a lot of energy.

Anyway have been trying to get my home in a more tidy state, because it is an absolute mess, and worried it is going to cause problems with the landlord. I try and start to organise some stuff. I collected a load of empty boxes, because I had planned to sell stuff I had collected, because it got so overwhelming to deal with after I found some had got damaged from damp.

My mind just gets continually worried about things, I am stressed with some "new" (25 year old) speakers I bought from a dealer. Only got photos of them yesterday after asking this dealer over 2 months for them. As I had very narrowly missed 3 other pairs which had come up in last couple of years. I felt I had to buy and collect them, otherwise they would just get quickly snapped up.

They are very bulky and heavy, over 50kg each. The dealer was a bit hasty helping me load them in to the car, and I fear he has damaged them as he rested both on the boot lock. We were holding them both, but I couldn't control when he wanted to rest them. Probably have gone through the custom boxes I have for them too.

I asked if I could here them before hand, but said he didn't have the setup to do that. When I arrived, he had plenty of suitable equipment. I thought he would have tested them, but after I paid for them, he told me he didn't test them at all.

Now problem I have is finding someone to give me a hand to lift them out of the car carefully, and help me set them up and relocate my existing pair.

I bought them as they were the version I wanted, to replace a stop gap I purchased last year. I realise I have made a mistake, and these are actually the same version that I have. I don't know why I missed that

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  • Thanks for all the replies, have only just finished re-arranging my front room to give me space to relocate my speakers. I managed to get a hand from someone I loosely know on a different forum down the road.

    I realised after relocating them, the stands for new speakers are different, and the speakers are not sitting on the main support points. Really worried about it because the previous owner of my old pair, said it was critical, otherwise the cabinets will be damaged internally. I should be able to adjust them with some bolts, but I have tried, and they are rock solid.

    So I have got to try again, he was a nice person to help, but always find it stressful dealing with people, have to ask him again. One side was damaged by the door lock, but I managed to darken it so it is not so noticable. Have discovered some other damage in the veneer, not sure it can be repaired. Real shame

    Just so tired and exhausted, my sleep is a bit pathcy, I am taking zopiclone to help.

    On the neighbour issue, I discussed it with a social worker I met for first time last week. She has offered to help with my landlord and police, not sure there will be a way to solve it, but hopefully I can minimise it, and the affect it has on me.

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  • Thanks for all the replies, have only just finished re-arranging my front room to give me space to relocate my speakers. I managed to get a hand from someone I loosely know on a different forum down the road.

    I realised after relocating them, the stands for new speakers are different, and the speakers are not sitting on the main support points. Really worried about it because the previous owner of my old pair, said it was critical, otherwise the cabinets will be damaged internally. I should be able to adjust them with some bolts, but I have tried, and they are rock solid.

    So I have got to try again, he was a nice person to help, but always find it stressful dealing with people, have to ask him again. One side was damaged by the door lock, but I managed to darken it so it is not so noticable. Have discovered some other damage in the veneer, not sure it can be repaired. Real shame

    Just so tired and exhausted, my sleep is a bit pathcy, I am taking zopiclone to help.

    On the neighbour issue, I discussed it with a social worker I met for first time last week. She has offered to help with my landlord and police, not sure there will be a way to solve it, but hopefully I can minimise it, and the affect it has on me.

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