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Hi,  I'm asking this question in behalf of my brother-in-law who lives in Scotland. He lives with his wife and 6 children, 3 of which havebeen diagnosed with autism. Their ages are 17 10 and 8. Of recent,  they aquired new neighbours who constantly complain about the noise. My brother-in-law and his wife do their best and can't keep them quiet 24-7. Their neighbour is always knocking on their door telling them about the noise, which they are aware of and recently he got quite aggresive calling the children "little b@$tards" ! A few days later my brother-in-law received an order for anti social behaviour in the post. He is fuming, but doesn't know what to do next, who to ask.... 

Can anybody please give me some advise on where he stands regarding this. The family have a tough time enough without the pressure's from this guy. 

Thank you in advance

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  • No definitely not. This is their 1st letter and have not been to court. ThIs guy isn't autistic himself either as he and his family are known by them. The only guy being menacing is the neighbour. On a number of occasions he has gone round knocking on their during the night, drunk, when everyone was asleep kicking off about noise. Noise that want bein made by them at that time of night.  Nor did  they hear any such noise?  

    When I visit,  I stay at his house and yes the tantrums they have seem over the top to myself. That's during the day. After 10pm they are all usually sleeping.  In fact the kids want mum and dad to go to bed too by 9pm.

    It does seem things are being blown up to what they're not.

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  • No definitely not. This is their 1st letter and have not been to court. ThIs guy isn't autistic himself either as he and his family are known by them. The only guy being menacing is the neighbour. On a number of occasions he has gone round knocking on their during the night, drunk, when everyone was asleep kicking off about noise. Noise that want bein made by them at that time of night.  Nor did  they hear any such noise?  

    When I visit,  I stay at his house and yes the tantrums they have seem over the top to myself. That's during the day. After 10pm they are all usually sleeping.  In fact the kids want mum and dad to go to bed too by 9pm.

    It does seem things are being blown up to what they're not.

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