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Negative Feedback Loop

Undiagnosed4321

What do you guys make of a Negative Feedback Loop?

Is this a common thing to get bogged down in Negative thinking, for one thing to happen which sends you down in a negative spiral, where you can't see the positives and just focus on the negatives and it makes you worse and worse?

Or is that another disorder?

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    NAS11521 said:

    Just keep in mind that they are the one in the wrong - not you.  If they don't want to meet up  (or can't for some reason) they should tell you.

    They should tell you but in the real world perhaps they can't bring themselves to tell you? People are fallible, unreliable, shy of telling the truth sometimes because it is difficult.

    What would happen if you let it go? Without knowing the circumstances it is difficult to know what it might be reasonable to expect.

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  • Former Member
    Former Member

    NAS11521 said:

    Just keep in mind that they are the one in the wrong - not you.  If they don't want to meet up  (or can't for some reason) they should tell you.

    They should tell you but in the real world perhaps they can't bring themselves to tell you? People are fallible, unreliable, shy of telling the truth sometimes because it is difficult.

    What would happen if you let it go? Without knowing the circumstances it is difficult to know what it might be reasonable to expect.

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