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Undiagnosed4321

Hi,

I've signed up here because this community seems so much more populated, so Im sure of an answer.

Far be it from me to be a hypochondriac, but every time someone talks to me about aspergers, I think 'that sounds like me'. I thoughts I'd run the online tests and they came out very interest.

I don't have all the symptoms, but I feel it is the closest match and Im looking to go to my GP so I have somewhere to start.

The things that don't seem to match with me though, is that Im good with eye contact (as far as I know - I remember playing the "who blinks first" game at school), Im good (as far as I know) with detecting emotion - but I'll tell you more about that later, I'm happy with change and don't have routines. I also have a desire to be social - though that may have come about due to starting to go to Church and learning different priorities.

However I do have a desire to be in control, my eye contact is different with different people. My social skills are poor, I don't invite anyone anywhere. Most of my adult life, my repertoire when talking to others, has been jokes, tv quotes, and relating to people by talking about my interests. I don't connect very well with other people as I just can't think of any questions.

The AQ test is a nightmare, do I enjoy social chit chat? Define enjoy, define chit chat? I like being with my friends. So do I prefer the theater or museum? No idea. My friends invite me to the theater, so I go. Haven't been to a museum in ages. I don't know if I would enjoy it. Mostly I want to keep to myself though. I have no special skills. 

I have problem with emotion and memory recall.

So. My test results.

AQ between 31 and 41 depending on how I interpret the questions.

EQ 22

SQ 60

FQ 71

Eyes in the Mind (looking at the answers) 27

Eyes in the Mind (not looking at the answers) 14

AS you can see AQ and EQ are the anomaly ones here. Whether SQ and FQ could be learned behaviour?

The interesting one is the reading the mind in the eyes test.

If I do it while looking at the answers, I get 27. Normal NT score. If I do it while looking at the eyes and trying to guess the emotion, I get something which doesn't even exist in the choices. Mostly I'll get Happy, Sad, and "that face makes me feel angry", I might extrapolate a couple of more words like, guilty looking, concerned, concerned about something... So without looking at the answers, I get 14. When I uncover the answers, I quickly work out which one it is. Thre's a few faces where I'll get "Happy", there's only one happy answer but it's say Flirting with three negative emotions, it's clearly not flirting though so I actually end up putting the emotion on the face from the choices. Very quickly.

I have absolute zero idea what any of these actually mean.

Can you offer any interpretation?

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  • Thanks both.

    I don't consider myself part of the family yet as Im still working towards a diagnosis and understanding.

    Im relatively good at eye contact, seem to be good at working out feelings, don't consider that I have any routines and I don't mind change. I don't have any mannerisms or issues with talking par se.

    I don't like people touching, Im useless socially, Im not aware of my own emotions mostly, Im too logical, Im shy, not confident, I find it difficult approaching people especially if you're with a group of people. In all conversations, I find it difficult to think of things to say and find it difficult paying attention. I relate to people with jokes, tv quotes, and talking about my own experiences. Im very obsessive and find it very difficult giving up any degree of control.

    Honestly, I don't know what Im dealing with. Avoidant Personality Disorder, Social Anxiety, an Autism Spectrum Disorder. I have no idea.

    I have written everything down that Im concerned about - and it's a lot more than this, it totals fifteen pages. Im going to the GP but I have a real fear and embarrassment. What if all of everything I've gone through is normal for anyone growing up? I doubt it, because I do see differences when I look over my history. I just hope Im taken seriously because it can be such a fight trying to meet some kind target just to get a referral. I may not be high up on the list, but I've got real issues that have affected me.

    Knowing what Im dealing with (if anything) that I can then pinpoint where to get help if necessary, what my make up is so I can stop trying to be something different and just accept me for who I am. At the moment I feel like I should be able to do more socially. That's why I want to make sense of all my problems.

    Thanks

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  • Thanks both.

    I don't consider myself part of the family yet as Im still working towards a diagnosis and understanding.

    Im relatively good at eye contact, seem to be good at working out feelings, don't consider that I have any routines and I don't mind change. I don't have any mannerisms or issues with talking par se.

    I don't like people touching, Im useless socially, Im not aware of my own emotions mostly, Im too logical, Im shy, not confident, I find it difficult approaching people especially if you're with a group of people. In all conversations, I find it difficult to think of things to say and find it difficult paying attention. I relate to people with jokes, tv quotes, and talking about my own experiences. Im very obsessive and find it very difficult giving up any degree of control.

    Honestly, I don't know what Im dealing with. Avoidant Personality Disorder, Social Anxiety, an Autism Spectrum Disorder. I have no idea.

    I have written everything down that Im concerned about - and it's a lot more than this, it totals fifteen pages. Im going to the GP but I have a real fear and embarrassment. What if all of everything I've gone through is normal for anyone growing up? I doubt it, because I do see differences when I look over my history. I just hope Im taken seriously because it can be such a fight trying to meet some kind target just to get a referral. I may not be high up on the list, but I've got real issues that have affected me.

    Knowing what Im dealing with (if anything) that I can then pinpoint where to get help if necessary, what my make up is so I can stop trying to be something different and just accept me for who I am. At the moment I feel like I should be able to do more socially. That's why I want to make sense of all my problems.

    Thanks

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