Should I pursue a diagnosis for 5 year old?

Hi, my 5 year old daughter has always shown signs that both me and my husband haven't thought of as "normal behaviour" we have blamed everything from the area we live, the friends she has, our own parenting skills. Everything. But I think we have finally noticed something Is different in her since she has been in her second year at school. 

She finds it hard to hold down friendships. She isn't that shy but cannot maintain relationship ships with people. 

She struggles to control her emotions, she is either completely over excited and can't bring herself back down or at the flick of a finger she is completely devestated and hysterical. 

She doesn't seem to process what we say to her, we have tried so many different ways to communicate with her but it's like she isn't there at times, especially if she is being told off. Some people say every child does this but she is different. She completely shuts down. 

She likes to have a plan for everything she does, she always needs to know exactly what will happen next and if it doesn't go that way she gets upset.  

She can be so angry at times but for no apparent reason.

Has anybody else had these sorts of behaviours and how have you del with it? 

Should I seek support from the GP or does this not sound like asd? 

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  • Former Member
    Former Member

    It is certainly possible that she has ASD. Children's characters do vary a lot and it is not possible from the limited amount of information you have given to be at all confident that ASD is a likely issue. There are other issues that kids can have and the definition of what is normal is not exactly well defined.

    you might find this page describes some of her behaviour?

    http://www.autism.org.uk/about/what-is/pda.aspx

    If she has a problem (i.e. things are so difficult that she needs help) then a visit to the GP would be the next step. It is good to be clear of

    a) Why you think this is a problem - does she get into fights/disagreements or is struggling at school

    b) What signs make you think that ASD might explain her behaviour. This would include some of the stuff that you have already written in your first post but there may be other things that you might think are "odd" in some way.

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  • Former Member
    Former Member

    It is certainly possible that she has ASD. Children's characters do vary a lot and it is not possible from the limited amount of information you have given to be at all confident that ASD is a likely issue. There are other issues that kids can have and the definition of what is normal is not exactly well defined.

    you might find this page describes some of her behaviour?

    http://www.autism.org.uk/about/what-is/pda.aspx

    If she has a problem (i.e. things are so difficult that she needs help) then a visit to the GP would be the next step. It is good to be clear of

    a) Why you think this is a problem - does she get into fights/disagreements or is struggling at school

    b) What signs make you think that ASD might explain her behaviour. This would include some of the stuff that you have already written in your first post but there may be other things that you might think are "odd" in some way.

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