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Hit rock bottom.please help.....

Debs75

Hi. ...

I will try keep it short.  Just really need some support

First time in my life .   I was scared of my 14year old son.

He was in a rage.....normal unfortunately...slowly slowly months at

A time getting help.too long go into it....Just say his got autism and

Major anger issues.

Well after being very insulting to his sister, I over heard and stepped

In. Than he went full on  at me .....He called me things u wouldn't

Call your worst enemy.....Than he went to hit me......not unusual

But he wanted too....He ment it...He went to hit me....I stopped him. But really wanted too.....I'm horrified......am so soul destroy

His thrown stuff before....but he wanted to hurt me....

If i ask for help ......Will he get taken away from us ?????

In the end I had to call his dad upstairs to help....

I'm no push over.....but I'm so disappointed.......I'm begging

For anger help for him.....as I love him,with all my heart....this stops now tho

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  • Hello,

    your son sounds a lot like me when I was 11ish. I didn't understand the meltdowns. I was not in control. I was fighting the anxiety and loosing.

    I hit it i raged and smashed and hit people I care about. I didn't love them any less. I didn't mean to hurt them. I needed thier help to get back into control. The world can be so scary and overwhelmimg.

    in mine case I did go into foster care. That way i managed to get some help. It worked out well. I was suppose to go home but I was happier in my new school.

    These days I work for the BBC and own my home in london. I have a cool job and the autism is still part of me but under control. I have code on almost every page and built late parts of iPlayer radio. 

    i know social service won't listen unless you shout and shout. My parents shouted too but I am glad they stopped when they did. 

    In summery;

    - try not to read to much meaning into what your son is doing  The driver is probably frusration and anxiety not anything to do with you.

    - social services will probably help. If restbite care is what you both need take it. Let the situation calm down and come back to it in the future.

    I hope that helps,

    Jamie + Lion

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  • Hello,

    your son sounds a lot like me when I was 11ish. I didn't understand the meltdowns. I was not in control. I was fighting the anxiety and loosing.

    I hit it i raged and smashed and hit people I care about. I didn't love them any less. I didn't mean to hurt them. I needed thier help to get back into control. The world can be so scary and overwhelmimg.

    in mine case I did go into foster care. That way i managed to get some help. It worked out well. I was suppose to go home but I was happier in my new school.

    These days I work for the BBC and own my home in london. I have a cool job and the autism is still part of me but under control. I have code on almost every page and built late parts of iPlayer radio. 

    i know social service won't listen unless you shout and shout. My parents shouted too but I am glad they stopped when they did. 

    In summery;

    - try not to read to much meaning into what your son is doing  The driver is probably frusration and anxiety not anything to do with you.

    - social services will probably help. If restbite care is what you both need take it. Let the situation calm down and come back to it in the future.

    I hope that helps,

    Jamie + Lion

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