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how do i make and keep friends???

davek75

hi

im nearly 40 years old, i have aspergers and have spent most of my life alone! those that have the pleasure of my company for a short while, say im an amazing guy, kind, gentle, loving, and very honest and open... but for some strange reason i just cant stay friends??? is it my autism?? is it me?? WHY DO I FIND IT SO DIFFICULT TO KEEP FRIENDSHIPS???? HELP!!! :(

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  • Hi

    As Longman says, no easy answers - but I'm sure you weren't expecting any!

    I do think that NT people will socialise for the sake of it, we are not comfortable with that. I think we need a purpose to meet and maintain contact. For instance someone who was into cycling might join a club, go on regular rides and make friends through this shared interest. That avoids the need for useless small talk and social activities with no point.

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  • Hi

    As Longman says, no easy answers - but I'm sure you weren't expecting any!

    I do think that NT people will socialise for the sake of it, we are not comfortable with that. I think we need a purpose to meet and maintain contact. For instance someone who was into cycling might join a club, go on regular rides and make friends through this shared interest. That avoids the need for useless small talk and social activities with no point.

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