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how do i make and keep friends???

davek75

hi

im nearly 40 years old, i have aspergers and have spent most of my life alone! those that have the pleasure of my company for a short while, say im an amazing guy, kind, gentle, loving, and very honest and open... but for some strange reason i just cant stay friends??? is it my autism?? is it me?? WHY DO I FIND IT SO DIFFICULT TO KEEP FRIENDSHIPS???? HELP!!! :(

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    You aren't alone, this is entirely normal with Aspergers. Social communication issues are at the root of the syndrome. However, there are things you can do about it to have a better life. There are sections in "Living Well on the Spectrum" by Valerie Gaus on Building Relationships and Dating etc. I highly recommend this book as it is full of practical advice about the whys and wherefores of ASD and the things that you can do to build a more sustainable social life.

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    You aren't alone, this is entirely normal with Aspergers. Social communication issues are at the root of the syndrome. However, there are things you can do about it to have a better life. There are sections in "Living Well on the Spectrum" by Valerie Gaus on Building Relationships and Dating etc. I highly recommend this book as it is full of practical advice about the whys and wherefores of ASD and the things that you can do to build a more sustainable social life.

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