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This is probably more of a question to admins, but also I'm wondering(as we usually do), is it just me?

I love this forum; I really do, yet it bugs me that I'm not allowed to use my real name and photo.  Since finding out that I'm autistic and that I have spent most of my life masking, it is crucial for my well-being to be my raw self and not use masks. 

I do understand the reasoning behind these forum rules, yet considering that we are all adults in here, I believe we should have a choice to reveal our true identity or not. Since the very important step to learning to live with autism is to stop masking. 

I would truly appreciate the input from the community, which I think I like a lot x

Just wanted to add that if we are considered as being a vulnerable community, shouldn't our forum conversations be viewed by registered members only?

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  • I take your point but some of the reasoning may be that this isn't a closed forum ie it can be read by anyone whether a member or not.

    I think we are seen as vulnerable. 

    I wonder whether it's easier for NAS to have a blanket rule so that the most vulnerable amongst us are protected.

    Seeing the awful things that some public figures are subjected to on social media I personally would be anxious to reveal my identity. 

    As you say though it might be best being optional.

    I think I sit on the fence on this.

    Thinking

  • in reply to B

    Spot on, it should be optional, not as a blanket rule in one or another way ...

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