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A flap and a quandary

TheCatWoman

I've just had a text inviting me out for coffee in a pub on saturday with one friend who moved to Scotland a year ago and anther I fell out with a couple of years ago, its put me in a total flat spin. I want to see my friend Anne, but 11am's a bit early for me to do anything, I'm really busy on saturday anyway, getting a load of stuf to go to the tip. The idea of sitting in a pub with several other people just fills me with horrified panic.

What do I do?

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  • That kind of thing can be very tricky, the sense of panic is very understandable.

    If it's a one off, I might try to go (if it were me), as pubs tend to be quiet at that time, with more things like your meet up in question, and not too noisy, and serve tea and coffee. It's still very difficult though, and it really depends on how much you want to see them vs not.

    If you only wanted to go for a little while, have a preplanned thing you need to get off to, so you don't have to stay longer than you want to, but can say it's okay and stay longer if you decide otherwise. 

    If it really isn't your thing, just say sorry you can't. Or you could explain it's awkward as you've fallen out with the other person and see if she'd meet up herself somewhere else and later on? That would probably be the most ideal I'd imagine? 

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  • That kind of thing can be very tricky, the sense of panic is very understandable.

    If it's a one off, I might try to go (if it were me), as pubs tend to be quiet at that time, with more things like your meet up in question, and not too noisy, and serve tea and coffee. It's still very difficult though, and it really depends on how much you want to see them vs not.

    If you only wanted to go for a little while, have a preplanned thing you need to get off to, so you don't have to stay longer than you want to, but can say it's okay and stay longer if you decide otherwise. 

    If it really isn't your thing, just say sorry you can't. Or you could explain it's awkward as you've fallen out with the other person and see if she'd meet up herself somewhere else and later on? That would probably be the most ideal I'd imagine? 

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