I need some advice

I've known I've had aspergers syndrome for around 2 years now, apparently my parents have known for 10 years. They seem to think "I've grown out of it" and "I don't have it anymore" to semi-quote them.
I keep trying to explain to them how I feel around people, I can't tell if its fear or not but never the less its increadibly uncomfortable. I can only feel comfortable with people I know / have grown to know and the older I get the more discomfort I feel in general social situations.
I'm 18 at the moment naturally this is the time to get a job, but I've gotten to the point where I'm terrified to leave my house, I'm supposed to go into town and sign on for job seekers allowance today, but I don't know my way there, I'm freakign out, but I don't know what to do.
I've tried explainign to my parents I just don't think I could handle working with people, but to quote my father "Get it out of your head, there is nothing wrong with you". I'm stuck for words, I feel like I'm nagging if I try talking to my parents about it, but I can barely handle going to the dentists even with a parent, how am I supposed to keep myself calm when faced with a job, working with and for people.

Any and all advise would be appreciated I'm in a rough patch at the moment.
Thanks in advanced,
Bombshell

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  • Hi Bombshell,

    Afraid I can't come up with any specific advice for you but hopefully other people will be along who have experience of similar situations.

    I did want to recommend speaking to our helpline though, if you think it would help, to give you some support during today.

    You can call them for free, even from a mobile and the number is 0808 800 4104

    And I know it might not be the most helpful thing but there's a directory of Job Centres on the following page -

    http://www.totaljobs.com/Content/Jobseeking_plus/Job-centres.html

    And if there's anything specific people can help with today do let us know, sorry to hear about how rough things are for you at the moment.

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  • Hi Bombshell,

    Afraid I can't come up with any specific advice for you but hopefully other people will be along who have experience of similar situations.

    I did want to recommend speaking to our helpline though, if you think it would help, to give you some support during today.

    You can call them for free, even from a mobile and the number is 0808 800 4104

    And I know it might not be the most helpful thing but there's a directory of Job Centres on the following page -

    http://www.totaljobs.com/Content/Jobseeking_plus/Job-centres.html

    And if there's anything specific people can help with today do let us know, sorry to hear about how rough things are for you at the moment.

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